Name: wildfwb | Location: Las Vegas , NV |Question: Ok me and this guy have been "hanging out" for 5 months now.We both work and have really busy specials and only have time to see each other on the weekend. We still talked everyday and went out on  the weekends and did healthy activties. We were trying to do the whole FWB thing till this weekend we had wild passionate benefits should I say. On sunday while at brunch he said that I brought something out of him he did not know he had. We talked a little more about it and now he says that he morally does not feel right about what happens and only wants to be friends no benefits. He says that we are not going to have a relationship so why prolong the ending of our relationship. He has never been so harsh about the situation. Do you think there is more? He is not dating or even talking to anyone else so I just find it strange for someone to say no more freebies unless there are feelings involved. What should I do/say? I do like this guy just not really ready for a relationship.  |Age: 25 READ THE POST & COMMENT: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2008/04/are-all-men-slu.html

Name: Melanie | Location: Washington , DC |Question: I live in a city where women whine all the time about not being able to find good guys, or that all guys are jerks, or that there just aren't enough guys to go around.  I'm lucky in that I haven't had that problem in the past.  I still don't really think I have it now, because I meet guys everywhere.  I got out of a three-year relationship recently and have started dating again.  I meet all these really great guys, but almost all of them are "betas" (one even self-identified as a beta recently.)  I'm more attracted to the alpha type (I'd guess that most women are), so should I try to change my mentality to "settle" for a really nice beta and be happy about it, or should I just hold out for someone more of a good fit? |Age: 30 READ THE POST & COMMENT: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2008/04/alpha-males-ver.html