I dont think Im looking for instant love and commitment. I am interested in getting to know someone and seeing if there is a connection.
What matters to me?
You are capable and do pay your OWN bills. (I can pay my own.)
If you have kids you are generous with your time and you are committed to being in their lives.
You do not want any more children.
You do have manners.
You understand that because I have children, you will not be invited to my home until I am completely comfortable.
You are not politically liberal.
You are open to all different types (color, sex, religion) of people.
You do not believe the past two statements are contradictions.
You are commitment free. Separated is not available in my world.
Attraction. It does have to be there. (I have to like the way you look and you have to like the way I look.)
What does not matter to me?
What type of job you have. (If you can afford your own life what does it matter?)
What type of car you drive. (Does it get you to work and to go out? Then it sounds fine)
I put the list of things that matter to me on there for a reason. You have to be able to agree with each one of them. Not just a couple of them. I am 37, work full time as an executive assistant, I have a stable job, a stable life and I am considered a good listener. Physically I am about 56, wear casual clothes, I am a size 22. I like my weight and I am comfortable in my own skin. If it is not for you then bye. Be a confident person and talk with me. I will respond within 24 hours to everyone.
Thank you,
- Location: Duluth
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